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writes: Ladyfriend asks me to do favors for her. When we're at my house she wants me to provide cocktails, snacks, movies, clean bathroom, clean bed, etc. But the favors are growing in scope. Now she has me fixing her house,hanging cabinets, fixing electric and plubing systems, and running errands for her social parties. Have I become a slave? Have the favors become abuse? She still hugs and kisses me and appears affectionate, but this is often followed by additional requests. When have the favors become abuse?Respectfully submitted,bojolay Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 She may just like you and thats her way of keeping you around it could be a trick to get you to do all this stuff but doubt it.i would say try turning the tables if you like her and want a relationship with her find a way to bring that up. You should be getting something out of it you kno what i mean damn atleast she can do i never mind. dude you need this is funny ok you need to either tell this chick you quit or make it worth your wile hugs and kisse only work for grandma.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Simple, I wonder why you don't see it! She is taking advantage of your kindness and naive character. Turn your back an leave, you don't need such friends
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (19 December 2009):
 You're not a slave, just eager to please and she might be taking advantage of this. Take a step back and don't do so much for her. If she throws a fit because she isn't getting her way, you need to find yourself a new ladyfriend.
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