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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear all,Im still sleeping with my ex bf, we been split up a year october just gone and since may we have been sleeping together, we have to do it in the cars so no one will see us, And it seems o be happening more and more recently, But whats begining to get to my mind is when we fist started it was just sex but now its everything kissing, neck kissing everything,I often want 2 tell him my feelings for him but cant for other reasons, and the other day he txt me saying i was one of his best mates, If i was one of his best mates then why are e still sleeping togeher when we shouldnt beDoes he miss me?Does he still have some sort of feelings for me?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 December 2009):
Sweetie, I hate to tell you this but men LIKE sex. They also LIKE kissing and EVEN kissing necks.
He's not going to stop finding you attractive, so if you let him have some sex every now and then, well great!
However, NONE of this means he wants to be with you.
If you have feelings for him then you are going to get very VERY hurt at some point.
The ONLY chance you have to get him back is to tell him you aren't over him and still want to be with him but know he doesn't want to be with you. So you need to cut contact to get over him. Do not reply to any texts / phone calls. Do not see him.
When he realises what he's missing he with either:
A) contact you to say he needs you
B) respect your wishes and let you get on with it.
Good Luck! xx
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