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How do I not let him suck me back in?

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Question - (19 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Help!

I just dumped the guy ive been dating for 6 months and ive never been more in love with someone!

It started out so good, but after about a month he felt so "cold"

He explained that he is kinda cold, and i wouldnt be hearing kind words all the time

"OK" i thought, but he suddenly stopped showing me affection at all. Only when horny he would snuggle up on me, and smiling. He wouldnt even kiss after the first month if i didnt FORCE him to.

He says he loves me, and i know. But...i get to fucked up from this shit

Being with someone who loves you, but NEVER shows it. Who aint "ready" for a relationship, or even go out with "we are dating".

I once mentioned that we had been going out quite some time, he totaly yelled at me when we went to hes place

wHEN we are with hes friends hes always so happy, smiling and everything

But when only us two, he only teases me, calling me fat and bald. And jokingly slapping me ;_;

And he frequently meet hes ex without telling me

"Im busy" he will say if i wonder what hes up-to "today"

When i broke up he said "bla bla, i love you bla bla"

And then i explained i cant anymore, he fucks me to mutch up. And he went "but dont stop visiting me =)"

Ive wasted o so mutch time on helping him with chores, cleaning and shit only to meet that pissed out face after work.

How do i get over this guy? Hes probably going to try reel me in, and i kinda love him. But he aint no good

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntMaybe hes Bi polar or something, I suggest blocking his number deleting it from your phone. Walk away from him and dont look back. Stop saying you love this guy because theres obviously nothing to love about him you know what you have to.

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