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anonymous
writes:anyway about a month ago i told this guy in one of my classes i have a crush on him.he never answered me he just walked away. he still talks to me and all but i dont know if i should bring up what i said and if i do so how. should i live it alone and not bring it up and let him bring it up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Personally I think it depends on your personal judgement as to how he behaves towards you. For example, when you talk, how does he speak to you, how often and what about. Does he flirt when you talk? Try and decipher from his behaviour or tell us more about him and how he acts because, like i said for me personally, its hard to advise whether or not to bring it up again with such little info towards the subject.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 well it seems he didnt kno how to take it girls mature a bit faster then boys if your age is correct im gonna say the boy is not really sure what to do about it he could either not like you or just have taken it as a compliment. telling someone you have a crush on them is kinda vague im guessing your expecting him to make all the moves after that but hes just a boy after all. If a girl told me she had a crush on me and i liked her i would tell her to get over it im a jerk. but thats just me in your case i would suggest being more pro active. find a reason to hang out with this guy ask him to the movies or to a party try and get to kno him and start spending time with him. you could ask him if he has myspace Fb etc or for his phone num thats about it happy holidays and good luck
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reader, mimi:D +, writes (19 December 2009):
i think you should say
remember when i told you i liked you? you never responded
i think thats straight to the point luck!
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reader, witch-fire  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 Dont bring it up again and i know its no good now but you shudnt have said u had a crush. You should hav asked him out. Give him time to think it through and he might ask you out. Hope it works out hun x
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (19 December 2009):
 This is a difficult one really
1, If your sure he heard you l would leave it alone
2, He may have heard you but is nervous to bring it up, make a move etc
I would suggest if you can to try and arrange a trip bowling, cinema etc with other friends and invite this lad along and perhaps spend alot of the time talking with him
Best wishes
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