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writes:My partner is currently in Iraq at present and I'm missing him so bad its unbelievible! We love each other and we are the practically the same person we are that much alike... The problem is the intimate times we have together are mind blowing, fantastic... We both agreed before he left not to "sort ourselves out" because it will be more special when he comes back... but I'm falling apart, I'm constantly frustrated and in a really bad mood. What can I do Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 October 2008):
 I'm so sorry that you and your love have to be separated while he's in Iraq. What a great thing he is doing and what a great thing YOU are doing, by supporting him and staying faithful to him.
But, not masturbating while he is away - the thought is very nice, but I can say it no better than the previous poster. "I think agreeing not to masturbate while he is away is romantic... but stupid" (beautifully put.)
Just because you masturbate will not cheapen the beauty of your first time together when he returns. Your first time together will be amazing, even if you've been masturbating 4 times a day. Your love and reunion will make the sex amazing. Masturbation will help you not to crazy in the meantime!
Besides, your hubby is in Iraq which can't be any fun. He deserves a little fun time fantasizing about you and you deserve the same.
Why don't you try phone sex together or send him really fun/filthy letters in the mail? That way you can still be together from a distance.
Good luck, my sweet!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 October 2008):
Heya matey!
My hubbie is in Iraq too. Don't you just end up wandering around feeling lost?
I think agreeing not to masterbate while he is away is romantic... but stupid. I am sure you want to last him more than 5 seconds when he's home and that is what's going to happen if he hasn't been able to do anything for 6 months.
Next time he calls just tell him how much you are missing him and thinking about him and if you can't do something soon you are going to get the sack at work as you are so distracted all the time. Say it in a really sexy way and I am sure he'll get the feeling it's a good idea.
My hubbie says that the best time for him to have a Personal Moment is after the IDF alarm goes off. If he's in his bed space and no one else is in the tent then he knows he has 25 minutes alone while they search the camp for unexploded rockets.
There is a silver lining to every situation. You could also buy a flash pen / memory stick from the supermarket and post him it with some nice pictures of you on it to put on his lap top.
Good Luck!! xx
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