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writes:I'm so fed up of being alone. Every single one of my mates are either in a relationship or have been in one. I feel so left out of it, yet I just can't find anyone who is interested in me. I know I'm only young, and I'm not asking for some to marry, just someone to be interested in me for once. A few months ago I slagged around a lot. I got into anyone I could when out in town, and at the age of 16 I had slept with seven people. Since I've turned 17 (in April) I haven't slept with anyone, or even kissed anyone. I decided to turn my life around, but I'm so fed up of being alone now. I find myself making up stories in my head about the guy I really like. Stories like him coming to my house to tell me how much he really does love me. I can't help it. I spend most nights in my room crying. I can't bare going out with my friends because all I can think is that they pity me. And like on Tuesday we went out in the car and all I could think was "I am the only single person in this car." Its all I ever think about. I really need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (23 October 2008):
 The reason you are alone is because 'slagging' yourself around as you put it has given you a reputation that no guy looking for a relationship would want to deal with. You either need to find someone 'out of the loop' who doesn't know you at all etc, or let time show them you are not like that anymore. Getting yourself a reputation doesn't help in getting a proper relationship. To boys, all you are is sex if that's the message you give out.
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (23 October 2008):
Oh Im The Same Only I Didnt slag around lol.
ive onli ever slept with 2 boys (in realtionships).
I dont want to have a go but boys realy dont like girls who are easy! they have no respect unless they want sex!
I agree with the above answer boys are really not going to go for someone who is depressed and unhappy they like fun,happy girls..be confident,be yourself!
Dont feel paranoid either its no good..your freinds dont pity you..(i bet half of them are onli ina realtionship cos they dont want to be alone). So You prove to them that you can be happy without a guy.
But please dont slag around enymore cos that is not the answer you'll end up losing all respect!
good luck babes x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 October 2008):
Wow, I think you are getting a bit paranoid here and depressed.
No one pities you, and no one is bothered that you are single.
We all go through stages where we are single and alone, you'll come out the other side just fine. But you are not going to find out if you are giving out massive vibes of being depressed and definately not if you sit in your room alone.
Give yourself a kick up the bum and go out and have fun!
Good Luck!! xx
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