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writes:Last nite I got back from meeting a friend of mine and my ex, basically we had a drink and a laugh and nothing more, anyway I know for a fact that this mate I went out with likes me more then that, anyway I think he mentioned this to my ex which my ex replyed to him that she wouldnt go out with you because she wants me,I was completely shocked that he would say that as he was the one who called it over on our relationship but this is when we had only just finished and that was also before he started going out with someone else, do you think that deep down he would have liked to get back together before he got with this girl,his old gf of a year ago?My ex he was also the one who arranged this meeting with this mate of both of us Basically my ex SAID TO HIM SHE WONT DATE YOU SHE ONLY WANTS ME AND WANTS TO GET BACK WITH ME? please any advice its confused my mind even more xxxx
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reader, Beery +, writes (23 October 2008):
 Maybe he wants to get back with you. Maybe he just doesn't want you to have any other relationships. But the real question is this: do you really want to get back together with a guy who loves you so little that he regards you as his personal property? I mean this guy is out there sabotaging your potential relationships!
If it was me, I'd give your old boyfriend a good talking-to and I'd have nothing more to do with him. It's really none of his business who you go out with and he needs to understand that keeping his nose out of your private business is what breaking up with him means.
On the other hand, if he's right - if you really do want to get back together with him, while his actions are wrong, it's equally wrong of you to string him along and he is likely to get frustrated with you - even to the extent of warning off potential suitors. You need to really look into YOUR motives on this one. If you want to get back together, stop messing him around. If you don't want to get back together, you need to make that clear to him and tell him to back off.
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