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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:In the beginning of my relationship I had agreed on me and my boyfriend in having an open relationship. More or less on his side he got to flirt, sleep, pretty much do whatever he wanted. At first it was no problem because I Thought our relatinship would'nt last more than a couple of months. Presently, we've been together for 3 years and I no longer like the feeling of having to share my man, intimately or emotionally. I feel beyond frustrated and my pregnancy doesn't help out my emotions, please help me understand what's going on or we could end up parting ways. Let me mention that we live together, kids are involved, plus one on the way and I know we love each other, but I want that love only for me and the kids. Am I wrong for feeling this way? I know it's complicated, but I do love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): On times to time,love reduces,but hold on dear who knows something very wonderful may happen to you later, think about the new one who will come to this world. start a new relationship with your partner anew as if there was nothing before.
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reader, innocent16  +, writes (23 October 2008):
If you love him and he loves you, plus having children involved; you should sit down and talk to him, be open and honest. Tell him that you want to be exclusive now after these years, just explain what your feeling and exactly what your going through. I'm quite sure it will all work out to the best plan.
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