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writes:hello, thanks for read my question, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, I think we have a nice relationship and strong feelings for each other. He has a very high sexual energy, so do I, the sex between us is great, sometimes we do it for hours, obviously taking breaks in between. The thing is that he has told me many times that he miss me when we are not together and the other day also he told me that he always fantasize with my body. I don't know how to take this comment, is this that I am his sexual object?. he has told me in many ocations that if I wasnt to quit of the sex he can live without sex. In the botton of my heart I don't think he is with me because of the sex, but sometimes I have my doubts about it, am I being paranoic? is it normall this kind of behavior in guys. Before him I only had one relationship for 5 years and honestly the sex was crappy, no spark. Here everything is so perfect that I am scare that I am being fooling myself.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (23 October 2008):
 Most men fantasize about the one they love when they are apart . My thoughts drift to 'dirty' images of my girlfriend about once every 8-9 minutes. It's not because I only want her for sex... but it is because the sex with her is mind blowing, and because I am unbelievably turned on by her. I also think she is intelligent, witty, funny, sweet, and a perfect match for my mind. When it comes down to 'business', it's her body that gets me going. That doesn't mean I only want her for sex, in fact, nothing could be further from the truth. So don't worry about it.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (23 October 2008):
 Who would you prefer he fantasize about? The other aunties have it right on. YOU are the object of his desire. Isnt that a wonderful thing?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 October 2008):
What would you rather he said "I fantasise about the girl next door when we are apart."???
It's a compliment.
He only has thoughts about you and can't stop thinking about you.
You are a lucky girl!
Good Luck!! xx
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