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writes:Where do i begin.?I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend split up about 7 months ago, and it took me soo long to get over him but with the help of my best male mate i did it.BUT ive got a problem, i think im falling for him.Hes 19 lives with his dad and we'r REALLY close.When we first started talking i told him i wasnt ready for a relationship and he agreed, but the more time i spend with him the more i cant be sure.Its like im getting these feelings for him that i used to get with my ex but their stronger, everytime i hear his voice my legs go weak, and everytime i see him i get this tingling feeling in my stomache, and when i see him smile it makes me wanna smile for no reason.I love to see him happy, weve been sleeping together too which doesnt help matters.I stay over his a lot and cook him dinner and go food shopping with him most weeks. It feels asthough we are in a relationship but were not. I'd love to be but i dont want to ruin the friendship weve got. BUT i dont wanna play that waiting game again.Im so confussed please help.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSooo.
I hevnt seen him in about a week and i went out tonight with both our mates without him.
I had a REALLY good time but i was thinking of him the whole night, his mate likes me and we ended up kissing, i feel asthough ive cheated on him and am REALLY upset.
I dont now what to do.? I REALLY miss him but i ont want to tell him cause he mght get freaked out.!
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Your not friends, you are sleeping together. Babe it sounds like your already in a relationship He has helped you get through a tough time and it has made you realise your feelings. Talk about his feelings and if your both ready for a relationship. You shouldnt be worried about it ruining the friendship when you have already had sex.
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