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female
age
30-35,
*hichick
writes:I've been "with" my guy for 3 years now. In that time we spent a year "broken-up" but we were together anyways just not officialy you know becuase we wanted to resolve our issues etc. before we went any further now that we are back together it's like we have "arguments" every day. Not really bad or anything but I don't like something and I get "angry" real easy and so does he, but were always happy a "fight/arugement" just lasts a few minutes and it's done with and were happy talking having fun. He tells me that I rely on him to keep myself entertained cuz all my friends moved to another country to study so I don't really have people to hang out with ad I'm very picky when it comes to friends. So he gets angry when I'm bored and call him. He is always busy, he does have a hectic life trying to make money so we can go on vacation next week without his head going underwater you know so I know he is trying realy hard, sometimes I think I'm ungrateful expecting thing to just be done and forget they dont work that way. We have bee trough allot together I broke up with him cuz I thought I still loved someone else then a week later we were back together because i realized I loved him and he was who i really wanted to be with. Later he had broken up with me becuase all that had been going on made him doubt if he still really loved me a week later I called him and told him if he was sure he said no so we were back together because he missed me and felt he wanted to try because I am exactly wwhat he wants in his future and thats when we decided to just take things real easy ad a year after we broke up officialy we got back together officialy thinking this is working good and it should be official again (although everyone KNEW, we went on vacations together and went out etc etc).But in that year there was a point where he said I don't think this is going to work and broke things off and I had just taken him out of my life completely cuz I thought I didnt deserve this I was better than that, I went out met someone else this guy liked me and everything but I just didn't feel anything for him, 3 weeks after we had broken up he finally got the guts to call me told me he couldn't live without me and wanted me back and he was not kidding crying on the phone and everything so I said (because I still love him) well let's try this again but I wasn't convinced but he kept trying really changing, showing me he was for real and I gave in and before we knew if it was a year after the official break up and he told me "this is the day I made the worst mistake. A very sad day, so I wanna make it a happy one" I just told him I'm happy the way we are and how things have gotten between us and he said "ow, really? Cuz I thought maybe you would want to be my GF again, officialy that is" and I accepted. Now I think we were so happy and we still are now but, is it really meant to be even though we disagree so much sometimes???Do you think we are meant to be together?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 October 2008):
 I don't believe there is a magical force that puts you near anybody. I do think that, if both parties try to work a relationship out, that happens.
If you both try, then you will be together. It won't happen because Fate would have it that way.
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