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How can I beat my nerves and meet someone on a night out??

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Question - (6 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been feeling very horny lately. This month means it's been a year since I last had sex, and I think that is what's bringing this on. I want to know what action I should take.

I don't want to simply ignore it and hope it will go away. There's nothing I'd like more than to meet someone, have a few evenings out on a night with her, and then eventually go to bed with her. At this time where that is something I really want, it doesn't feel like I'm going to get it. Does anyone have any advice on how to meet somebody whilst on a night out? Sometimes I find myself a little too nervous to pick up my nerve and talk to somebody attractive. How can I beat my nerves?

Help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008):

Take your time, it will come, wait patiently....sometimes when we push for things to happen they go further away from us. When things happen naturally at their own pace they stay longer and have more quality. If you are just feeling 'horny', then fine, go and have it clear in your mind exactly what your aim is, but it seems as if you want more as you want things to happen over a few dates first.... remember, when you spend time with others, the more time you spend, the more attached and involved you become or they become, so first think carefully of exactly what you want and let things take their natural course.........there are means and ways of satisfying ourselves sexually, whatever you decide always be yourself.....you then have more chance of finding someone more suited to you.Also be aware of other peoples feelings. Good luck and happiness.

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