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female
age
30-35,
*rettyEyez08
writes:I have been talking to this boy going on 9 months now. I really like him alot cause he treat me like a girl should be treated. I can tell he cares about me but theres one problem. His ex girlfriend is 5 months pregnant and at first she dont know if it is his or another boy but now she says its his baby. He said he dont think its his. We wasnt serious at the time when they messed around. He hates her and she wants to be with him so bad. She cheated on him when they were together. What should I do if its his baby?
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reader, Aeval  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Although you really like him, ask yourself do you really need all the drama at such a young age?
Put yourself in her situation, she is having his baby (very possibly).
My advice is to leave it for now, wait and see the paternity of the child and then see how you feel, dont tie yourself down so young
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Support him. There's not really much else you can do.
Being with someone who has a baby is a major job. She (the mother) will resent you, and may even give the child bad impressions of you.
You'd have to be strong...but it's possible
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