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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a quite a few months now, and have never been in a rush to do anything. He knows I'm not ready for sex, and he's supportive of that. I want to wait untill i'm legally old enough, in a stable relationship and all that.The other day he asked me whether even though i'm not ready for sex, is the stuff before that off limits. I've been waiting for him to ask that question for ages now as I'm really comfortable with him and i know it'd feel right even if we deffinatley won't be going all the way.Because I've never have a "real" boyfriend before, as much as i know i'm ready to do stuff with him, i'm just worried i won't do it right.any advice?x
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reader, Soysauce  +, writes (7 May 2008):
maybe u shouldn't even try to have sex yet, i dunno, yuo may end up getting pregnant or getting a std or somethin, just don't do somethin u'll regret,take care,
-SOY
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reader, growing  +, writes (7 May 2008):
 It depends on you.if you want that then go for it,but first ask yourself are you ready and is he the guy that you trust this much that you are ready to do stuff with?cos sumtimes it leads to SEX.then it depends on ideology.if you think that you are comfortable with him and you are just looking for fun and it doesn't bother you much if you two will continue for long then go for it.whats the harm???atleast you are still keeping sex aside.
good gal!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): the key rele is to relax,there is no right or wrong way of doin things. chances are that if ur enjoyin it then so is he. is he more mature n experienced than urself? does he no u've not had much experience? if so then i am sure he will put u at ease n make u feel very relaxed n comfortable.
but some helpful tips:
*most of the feeling sensors in the penis are at the tip so you would do well to concentrate on this area (but do not foget the rest of the shaft)
*change the pace at which u do things ie slow to fast, harder to softer etc.
*try not to go to deep n choke urself as this can be off putting
*make him lie down for maximum effect.
hope this helps, take care x
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