A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, there’s this boy (call him A) who’s 1 year older than me who I have a crush on, but is ALSO my best boy mate. I haven't known him that long - about 4 months. Basically I’m confused about his feelings towards me. Yesterday me my best friend (G), her boyfriend (R) and A went out together. Because G and R are going out they spent most of their time together, therefore me and A spent most of our time together. Silly things such as him slowing down to walk next to me, brushing hands, putting his hands at his sides as if to say ‘hold it’, placing his hands around my waist to make me walk faster and walking away from the others just to walk and attempt a conversation, (but im extremly nervous, so it kept going silent! lol) have made me wondering if he is giving signals out to me, or I’m just seeing things and hoping that they all mean something. Can you tell me if he is giving signals or just being friendly? as he is quite confident and i think he is quite flirty but only ever had one G/F. Please please help me on this! I really would like to know as i'm not at all confident and don't really want to ask him, of course i'm scared of rejection but who isn't?! What does it all mean!??
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reader, growing  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 whats there to be scared about rejection????
if you are not confident about yourself then how can you expect sum1else(i am pointing on yr "A")to be confident about you to be his girlfriend.would you like him to have doubts about you??so clear all your doubts in your head about yourself..
Now coming on to him giving you signals.well,he seems to be a decent guy as he only showed pure gestures but they can be just out of friendship and didn't mean anything more.but if he is not dating some1 and shows concern and care for you then there is sumthing heating up...it may sound cliche but you have to wait if you want him to bring the proposal.
Am just wondering what is that stopping you to speak your heart out???common!!if you feel then feel free to express it..else just wait patiently..
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