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Am I insecure...or is this a real problem?

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Question - (6 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *astgirlstanding writes:

I know to a certain extent it is normal to try and interpret the actions of others but I guess I do not know what is healthy and what is not.

The man I am seeing, who seems well-balanced, and is friends with some of my friends, so comes with accolades as a good guy.

He was pursuing me for the first few weeks of dating, things were great. He would call or text just to let me know that he was thinking of me. We had a discussion a couple of weeks ago where I told him that due to religious and personal beliefs, I have chosen to remain abstinent until marriage.

We had a very frank discussion about it. I thought we were done dating but he called me and wanted to continue to see me. But the entire dynamic has changed and for the last 2 weeks I feel like I have to initiate contact and communication.

Can someone help me figure out whats going on?

We've only been dating about 2 months, and if i tell him i miss it i don't want him to feel obligated, but it really was part of his appeal...that he was very open and it made me feel good to be thought about.

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A female reader, lastgirlstanding United States +, writes (6 May 2008):

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i don't know why it says i am 16-17, but i am 27. does anyone know where/how i can change that?

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