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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi, split up with partner 4 wks ago. he said he never wanted to see my face again and hated me.i had to move out of our home. since then he bombarded me every day with texts and phone calls sayin he loves me and askin if we could meet up and try to work things out.i agreed to try and asked him to arrange a day to meet (we live 60 miles apart now), and that actions speak louder than words..meaning if he was serious about it he'd sort something out. i didn't hear from him for 5 days, which to me meant i didn't mean much to him after all! i was just about to send him a text saying he'd blown his chance when he called me. i asked him what was going on since i hadn't heard anything from him, he said he'd been busy with work and didn't have credit on his phone..excuses like he gave for things while we were together. we've arranged to meet this friday as he insists he wants to sort things but it seems to me like he wants it all on his terms! i don't know whether to go through with it and open myself up to more heartbreak, or if he really means what he says. i know the only way i'll find out is to go and see him but i'm really anxious about it. can anyone offer me any advice? has anyone been in a similar situation? xx
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reader, Tumasking  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I can conclude that he doesn't love you,at least he doesn't with all his heart and soul!You aren't the most impotant one for him.
He contact you just beacuse he get used to living with you,and now,he feel emptiness.
I advise you break up with him.As an old Chinese saying goes:short pain is better than long pain.
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