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writes:my boyfriend always ask my best friend to have sex with him and he told me once that he dont have the desire to have sex with me im a virgin and im not ready so do you think he's cheating should i break up with he evening calls my cousin everyday calls her sometime before me he even touches her and a way that he should be only touching me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): I also say leave him.
And I wanna pat you on the back for your whole train of thought. Your question was more or less: "I'm a virgin, is he cheating?"
Too often the question reads: "I'm a virgin and I think he's cheating, so should I give him sex now?"
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Perhaps he's cheating, perhaps he isn't, but one thing is for sure: your man is a dog and sooner or later, he's gonna do a lot more than just talk or touch. He's already proving himself to be disrespectful in his attempting to seduce gals. That's not something that a real, loyal, decent boyfriend would do.
Ditch the loser, that's what I say.
xx India
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I read the first reply and I had to add that I completely agree! Move on! There are a ton of respectable men waiting to see you come walking down the street!
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reader, happytochat +, writes (6 May 2008):
Oh my god! darling this is completely wrong what our bf is doing!!!
By him asking your friend to have sex, he is planning on cheating. Just because you are not ready (and that is completely ok that you're not ready yet!) doesnt give him the right to sleep around with someone else. He doesnt HAVE to have sex. He has the ability to wait, but hes just choosing not too because he would rather satisfy his sexual desires then think about and consider your feelings.
Also you said he touches your cousin in ways he should only be touchign you? Can you explain this in more detail? Thats def wrong too!!!
You deserve so much more then darling! You deserve a bf who realises all the great qualities you have and is willing to wait for sex with you until you are ready because he sees how worthwhile you are! And beleive me you are. This guy doesnt deserve you.
I have to ask, why are you staying with him? Do you realise now that what he is doing is wrong? I hope you consider leaving him. You deserve better so why settle for less?
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