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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've got this weird situation...well, i just dont have a sex drive, i know this sounds normal, but its not just the sex drive im missing - its everything.I know when sombody is attractive, but i never have the urge to want to touch them, or like them any further than a friend. Is this normal?I'm actualy the only person i know, and the only person my friends know that dont even like hugs.I dont want a relationship, i dont want love, i dont like the idea of sex, not that i find it disturbing. I know all about it, i'm nearly 16 and i make "sexual jokes"... i'm not scared of it, i just have no drive to do it, i dont even want any form of relationship.I havnt had my first kiss yet, and to be frank, i dont want one.Please... is this normal?
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reader, WastedLife  +, writes (6 May 2008):
You might want to check out Asperger's Syndrome - a fairly common variation on being human. It's far more common in guys(3:1) and it may originally show as being far more interested in things than people. Many Aspies do want romantic/sexual connection, and many don't. They do have a different way of relating to the world though. Just remember that if you are Aspie, you are in good company, such as Albert Einstein, Nicola Tesla, and Bram Cohen. If you are Aspie and don't want sex/romance, just be happy and get on with your life. If you ever do, you will have a lot of emotional learning to do. Good luck.
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