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Someone is sending messages. How can I find out who it is?

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Question - (6 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2008)
A male Cyprus age 41-50, *avvas writes:

can anyone tell me how can i find from where someone is calling or sending annoying messages? I know the number but every time a call back is not ringing. For a year now his sending messages to my girlfriend and recently to me. I do not know who he is but i know that he knows me and my girlfriend. Two months ago she said about our relationship at her work. We used to work together so they know me. The message i received recently was after saing about me at work. Any ideas or tips?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008):

The less people that are involved or know what is going the better as it would only get too complicated.

Personally I would go to the police and tell them everything thats been going on.

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A male reader, savvas Cyprus +, writes (7 May 2008):

savvas is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I did try all of those. I sent a message from a different number that i bought and his answered was that i do not know anything!!! Before he sent me this message his number was ringing when i try to call, after that everytime i tried calling, several times, the number was not ringing. I beleive is someone that works or worked with her. I have some suspects in my mind. I also bought a new number and i will tell the number to very few people that i know there to see if he will sent something. Is it a good idea?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008):

use someone elses phone to ring them back so they don't regognise the number...if they don't pick up then text them and say that if they don't stop harrasing you, you will tell the police.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008):

Keep a diary of the dates and times that you are receiving these messages and if possible the content of the messages also. That is one thing the police will ask you to do before they can do anything themselves about it. Something similar happened my mother and thats what she was told to do.

Also changing your number is a good idea also and making it ex-directory if possible also. Only give it out to those people you really trust...

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2008):

Try Ringing back using a different number the caller doesnt recognise.

If its possible, change your numbers, if the caller still texts then its obvious that they are still in close contact with either of you.

If the texts are malicious report them to the police, they may be able to track who it is.

xxx

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