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I shut down about a year ago and no longer want to be with him. How can I get him to understand it's over for me?

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Question - (6 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *elestine writes:

My husband and I have been married for over ten years and during this time he has let me down over and over again.

He is irresponsible, a cheater (caught one time), lacks motivation and always says he is going to work on things.

I shut down about a year ago and no longer want to be with him. We do not share any mutual accounts, my house is solely in my name, but he refuses to leave - saying he wants to work on things, and I do not.

How can I get him to understand it's over for me?

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A female reader, celestine United States +, writes (14 May 2008):

celestine is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I am a police officer and I really was trying to avoid getting law enforcement involved. I know I must do something because he is driving me up the wall. I will go on to the next step thank you for your responses.

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A female reader, shandygirl United States +, writes (6 May 2008):

shandygirl agony auntThe house is YOUR name, I think you can contact a Magistrate and get an order against him to force him to move.

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