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writes:How common is it for a guy to give his girlfriend oral sex? My girlfriend says she wants it but I don't know if I'm ready. Any advice would help. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): try and use your finger(s) when going down on a woman-the combination is the best of both worlds: internal AND external stimulation.
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reader, heatherisgoofingoff +, writes (24 June 2008):
If you are not comfortable with doing something,you shouldn't do it, period. But if it is just that you are shy or unsure if you will do it right. There are tips on giving pleasure orally to women on youtube.com. They are not sexually explicit videos, but just advice on what women like generally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): I didn't like doing it much when in my 20s. I progressed and started to really love doing in my mid 30s and have ever since. I think you should try it. If she is clean then it's really nice for both parties. I have done it nearly every time I have sex since my mid 30s. Do a search for oral sex or cunnilingus and read the hints on how to do it properly. Different women like different techniques, but she'll love it mo matter how you do it. It really is fun for both.
I don't know how many guys like doing it. I can only ask my wife about her previous boyfriends, but that was 30 years ago and she says that none did it much, if at all. Again, that was a long time ago, so habits have probably changed a lot since then.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 For me its every single time. Why? because the pussy is god's greatest gift to mankind, now its time for you to find that out, get your mouth down there boy and enjoy natures greatest gift - there's nothing better than bringing your girl to orgasm by giving her oral and boy does it get them ready when you finish. Just do it , and enjoy my friend.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (13 March 2008):
 If you are just not ready then don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Well if you've already had sex or if she's given you oral why not?
You're probably going to suck at it the first time (no pun), but practise makes perfect.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 March 2008):
 In my opinion, it has become increasingly common over the past 40 years, and it was happening quite a bit then. I was there. But yes, these days it's pretty much a natural thing in a good or intense sexual relationship. Go to the search field atop this web page and enter various subjects like: oral sex, cunnilingus, clitoris, etc.
Lot's of writings here include some "how to's."
As long as she is fresh and clean, there is nothing about it to harm you in any way. It will probably seem a bit pungent or musky at first - each woman seems to have a taste and smell all her own - but you'll likely learn to love it. Some are almost as sweet as a peach.
You may not be ready to do it for a long time the first try, but at least give it a go for five or 10 minutes, and eventually up to 20 minutes or more, or until she orgasms. She will never forget it if it's her first one with that activity. Read up first so you'll know more about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Well, when you're in a sexual relationship it's not thought of as bad or anything - really, it's pretty normal. In some ways, this is kinda unfortunate I guess, some people just see it as a casual thing. But if you're in a loving, intimate relationship then both people should appreciate such an act. But all I can say is if you're not ready, don't do it. Please don't let her pressure you into ANYTHING honey, this would just be unfair and not right. Good luck :]
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (13 March 2008):
 I don't know the statistics or if there are any for that question; however, I think it is between the partners to decide and experiment as to what feels right one to the other. What have you got to lose?I would suggest taking a nice bath together, foreplay, and then drying each other off, lotions or oils and go from there. Don't just dive right in without some foreplay...make it exciting and you'll see great results! Gena
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