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writes:Hello loves, I really am hoping someone can give me a few options here, im 27 years old, and my husband and I have been married for 4 years, 3 years ago we tried for a baby but failed. We've kept trying and no success, I've had 6 miscarriages. Im so very upset, I am okay with adopting but my husband i know really wants a baby of our own, I feel very bad, because I know thats what he wants. He's taken such good care of me, and I feel like im letting him down. We've talked and he's said time and time again, he's okay the main issue is keeping me happy and healthy. I love him so much, and so we are still trying, but does anyone know anything, oh and the problem is me being not able to carry a baby. Im so desperate my doctors say there's not much they can do, if I do get pregnant they can keep me on medication, but it's not very healthy for me, please anyone. I do appreciate this all. Thanks loves. Reply to this Question
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 If the case is that you and your husband both want a baby that is your own then maybe you should think about the medication issue.
Many women in the uk have the same problem and have taken this route and have given birth to healthy babies and stayed healthy themselves.
Its a lot to think about and you should way up the pros and cons for each suggestion.
Hope all goes well
peaches.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): As said, have someone else carry the baby to full-term. Mind you, this is asking a LOT of the other person. Maybe a very close friend or a relative is prepared to do it.
But remember, that woman is being asked to go through a pregnancy and all the emotions that come with that and then just hand the baby over to you. That is not an easy thing to do for anyone, this is why it is often either a financial arrangement (and these often end up in courts) or a relative who will still be involved with the childs live in some way.
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reader, Transcowboy +, writes (13 March 2008):
 if the main problem is that you can not carry a baby. Then maybe you should see if u can find someone who would be willing to carry the baby for you, they can implant your egg and your husband sperm in someone else, that is not a problem. It might cost alot of money. But if yall really want a baby that is both of you, this might be the best way.
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