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writes: I'm planning on having sex with a 32 guy im 22. I'm not a virgin but i feel unexperinced compared to him. All so he has to use mega condoms cause regular don't fit right so im scared of his size. Hes tall and thin but i guess his penis is to big. Is it gonna hurt to have sex with him since he has a bigger one? And i'm a small girl as it is. I've only had sex with guys that use regular. Also i can't figure out why i'm scared to have sex with a older guy i've only dated my own age guys. Has anyone had theses fears before? If so how did it go?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 All the other advisors and "anonymous male reader" made excellent contributions. I think that in summary, if the man is truly more experienced as likely, is a turn-on for you and a considerate person, you are probably in good hands. I rather doubt the "hugeness" issue, but as "anonymous" says, the vagina expands to be very accommodating regarding girth. The cervix recedes to allow penetration during arousal, and a nice man would not force a length that is uncomfortable or painful for his lover.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 March 2008):
How could DearCupid explain to you why you are nervous or scared? Sounds as if he "told" you that he requires a mega condom. Maybe so, and if it frightens you in person, then decline. You could make that a conditional agreement beforehand.
In any case, if you are very attracted to him, he is nice and you would like to share with him, you may learn a great deal more from an experienced man than guys your age.
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Hiya hen.I have been in the same situation and as long as your sure of the guy it should be ok.Older guys usually have more experience and could teach u a few things or two.If your comfortable enuf explaining why u are nervous ask him to take it slowly with lots of 4play to relax you.If hes not the type of guy you can talk to about it dont let him pressurise you in2 anything your not comfy with.Good luck and lots of love.Kahlan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): just be sure to let him know to take it slow at first because eventually you vagina will naturally stretch to accommadate his size. Are you just nervous because of his size or his age? Are you even comfortable with him enough to even have sex with him? Maybe you should be comfortable first before taking the next step. It's natural to be nervous and scared the first time around when you're really digging that person. Just relax and take your time.
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