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writes:I'm with this guy and our relationship used to be so great but now he doesn't have time for me. We never hang out or do things together because he's always with his friends. Iif I try to talk to him I don't want him to think that I'm trying to take him from his friends. I'm not sure if I love him any more. I also think that it might be me just wanting attention. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionif he doesnt want to hang out with you then so be it. tell him to go with his friends. dont sweat it. because if he loves you he'll start to miss you n want to be around you n hang out n stuff. n when he starts to miss you n asks you to hang out then you should be oooo now you wqant to hang out with me when you get tired of your friends. dont break up with him because that would be a mistake dont even argue with him be calm about it. see wat he says. hope i can be helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): i have a same problem dear.. guys r so selfish.. u knw when i cry on fone b4 my bf he cuts my call there n then. i feel so used now. i had a 3 year long relation. i still love him. please help me. i cry a lot. i had dreams of marriage with him n now everything shattered.
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (16 March 2008):
the romance and the magic in a relationship settles down once the guy is comfortable with you and you get taken for granted. I agree with the other post that maybe you are feeling insecure or needing more attention from him. Hey darling it takes two to tango so if it is more attention you want then why not take one day a week when you plan on doing something just you and him and spoil him. He will lavish attention on you if he is worth his grain of salt and will certainly come around. go to the movies. Hire a motel, go away for the weekend somewhere. go out to dinner or even dress up really nice with lingerie underneath and either cook him a nice meal or order something nice and candles and sit at home and enjoy the meal. Follow this with a relaxing massage and dessert of strawberries dipped in chocolate. Natural passion starter both chocolate and strawberries and darling go from there. If you put in an effort to become more fufilled then if he was worth it he would definately come around.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (13 March 2008):
 It's only natural to want attention from the ones that you love. Feelings are fickle. I say wait it out. Get some friends of your own to hang out with, but maybe you two could spend time on the weekends or have your own special day of the week. Just tell him what you told us-that you're not trying to take away his friends, but that it seems like he doesn't have time for you anymore.
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