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writes:I fell madly in love with guy and we saw each other for 5 months. He is scared by a painful divorce and finds it hard to show his feelings. I found out he was also seeing someone else while with me and i obviously ended the relationship. He has wormed his way back and I cant move on I love him so much but I can't trust him.do you think their is any hope for us?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): I think he needs a little compassion from your side. He is no doubt tramatized by his experience. Tell him he slips up and his out. Knowing what his problems werein his last relationship and reaccuring with anyone else is probably haunting him and causing his fears. Communication and follow through is important from both sides.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): does he feel the same way for you????apparently he must not love you the same way you love him because he has already been with another woman... however, you did say that he just got a divorce. he might just not be himself right now because he is still very upset about the divorce. you should talk to him and find out how he feels about you. if he cares for you in the same way that you care for him and he is ready to just be with you then you should forgive him for whatever has happened before and start the relationship over.remember that he was going through a lot after his divorce, and may have done things out of character. maybe he just needed time and is ready now, but you wont kno that unless you talk to him about it.hope everything works out great for you!mariah
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