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I really like both of the girls, but I don't want to have to go through anyone cheating on me again!

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Question - (13 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2008)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, my gf and i were doing really well until i caught her with another guy. I broke up with her and i got another gf. Then today, my old gf comes to me and begs me to come back to her, and that she was really sorry. I really like both of the girls, but i dont want to have to go through anyone cheating on me again. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2008):

peaches83 agony auntCheating is something that most of the world does, i wouldnt go back to your ex it be quiet honest, she found a fault in the relationship between you and decided to look somewhere else, this may happen again.

Your new girlfriend doesnt deserve to be dumped because your ex is back on the scene and wants you back even after she cheated.

Think about this long and hard you could end up in the same situation with your ex and will have hurt the girl you are with now or you could continue with the girl you are with now and have a really happy relationship.

Peaches

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A female reader, Holz United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2008):

Hi,

If i was you i wouldnt get back with her. I know its gay but once a cheater always a cheater. She shouldnt have done what she did in the 1st place really, she cant have liked you that much can she?. Stay with the girl you are with now you obviously you like her and she sounds like she likes you. Dont go running back to your ex because she already done it once and she will do it again. How do you know that she only done it once actually, you just happended to catch her this time. Really please take my advice she hurt once already and i know what it is like to have your heart broken dont let her do it again to you.

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