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writes:Does my ex girlfriend want to get back together? we broke up, very badly, and did not talk for a month. I called her and invited her to a party at my house. she came. i kept things light and did not mention the relationship at all, and even kept contact as minimum as possible. she stayed over and was very passionate and said she would call me soon. she did next weekend but i was working and could not see her. the weekend after was her birthday and i met her and we went out with her friends. again, i kept my distance, occupying myself with talking to her friends. she said she wanted to go "home", as in back to my house. then we were very passionate. she said that she loved me, and wanted me to get the day off of work so that i could spend it making love to her and then go to her parents house for dinner. I had to work again. she said that i owed her the day, that it was all she wanted for her birthday and that I would have to make it up to her soon. she seems very happy when we see each other, all flirty, but she has not mentioned anything about getting back together. so are these booty calls, or does she want me back? any thoughts as to why she ended it badly and is now acting in such a way?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Wait, but not for too long. Let her come to you. Next time you talk to her, if she keeps giving you these mixed signals, tell her so, and tell her to come back to you if she makes her mind up. Also, tell her that, in the meantime, you are both free, as in free to have other interests.
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reader, bigm10981 +, writes (21 March 2008):
bigm10981 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy update is that i wrote of the 2 times that I saw her. the 3rd time, she came over and, although i know that she was exhausted the whole time and just had a rough week, and had just finished her period, she was somewhat bitchy, and i don't know if that means she thinks we're together again, because it seems to be a bad thing to do to get mad at your booty calls. she said she wanted to see me again, but not for 2 weeks cause she would be busy. and she wanted to be able to spend more, not exhausted, time together, as in an entire free weekend, but said she would call. there are a lot of mixed signals here. she wanted to go to her place but said i couldn't cause there were people staying with her, but then she found out that i could but said it wouldn't be cool cause things weren't the same. but she was saying all the opposite things earlier. i am really confused.
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 "she said that she loved me, and wanted me to get the day off of work so that i could spend it making love to her and then go to her parents house for dinner"
Heeeeeeeellllllooooooo... Here's the clue. She wouldn't want to see you all day and go to her parents for dinner if it was just a booty call.
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reader, Auntie Zoe +, writes (13 March 2008):
she wants you back she just doesn't want to ask you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Well it seems to me that she's missing you and regrets ever breaking up with you, so if you love her, my advice would be to ask her straight out if she wants to get back, because you do too. As Danielepew said, ''If she doesn't give you a clear answer, then she isn't interested in a serious relationship anymore." In this case, I mean, they could just be booty calls, but I get a different impression and highly doubt that they are. The only way you're gonna find out is by asking her really, so next time she's coming on to you ask her, quite casually though. Good luck :]
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (13 March 2008):
I would think she wants you back. However, I would ask her, just in case... You need to know where you really stand, and the way to know is asking. If she doesn't give a clear answer, then she isn't interested in a serious relationship anymore.
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