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writes:I can't break up with my cheating boyfriend. I found proof he cheated on me and yet I can't seem to bring myself to break up. I go to college and I sadly do not have any friends at all where I live. I lost them all so I could be with him! So no one can help me through this.Help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): Start calling your old friends. They aren't totally lost. Start going to coffee with people, or seeing movies with people, NEVER bringing your boyfriend along. It will be easier to leave you boyfriend once you have other stronger relationships in your life. Maybe if you can't break it off totally tell him... you need a break? Or you want to be open to seeing other people or SOMETHING to start the process... Then start flirting with other guys. Sounds kind of silly I know but even just a little connection with new guys can help. Even just the cute guy you always see at the grocery store. If you look at the breakup as too black and white (from all him to suddenly having no him in your life) it will seem too hard, you need to slowly wean yourself off of him. Congratulate yourself on every little bit of progress you make. You are strong enough to do this!
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reader, babygirlconfused +, writes (14 March 2008):
dump his sorry ass girl and move on. You will find someone new and better trust me once a cheater always a cheater dont let him bring you down love always babygirl loves boo
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Good advice from angy but I have a hunch, and I maybe wrong, that the reason you lost your friends is because you moved away from home with him in which case things could become slightly more complicated....
Do you love him?? Is it that keeping you there or just the fear of being alone? Do you think you could ever trust him again?
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reader, angy +, writes (13 March 2008):
my first thought was how come you've lost your friends because of him?
It sounds as if you have become dependent on him for companionship etc.
Perhaps it's time to have a bit of "me" time by putting him on the back burner while you consider things and try contacting some of your old friends and get to know them again. The situation might become clearer to you when you've had a chance to catch up with some old friends and chat like you used to do.
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