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She loves to hang out with me but only with other people, is this a bad sign?

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Question - (13 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, *rion writes:

I am really good friends with this one girl. She knows i like her but she has never told me how she felt about me. All she said was that i was an amazing guy who makes her the laugh the most. She loves to hang out with me however she only wants to hang out if we are with other people. Is this a bad sign?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008):

as the others have said above, this can either be good or bad.

1.when you are with others, try and get closer to her, and if sparks start in a conversation, this make show that she likes you. If not, there isnt enough to start something.

2. if sparks fly, carry on until you recognised her flirting signals, like her smiling at your jokes (even the rubbish ones).

Girls are usually less obvious that men when it comes to flirting, so try and recognise her signals, then act on them and see if you can arrange something more private. If you think your going to lose your friendship over her rejecting you,then just try and be friends anyway, theres plenty more fish in the sea...good luck

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A female reader, Jmo United States +, writes (14 March 2008):

Jmo agony auntMaybe she appreciates your friendship but doesn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with you. She knows how you feel about her and hanging out with friends relieves her of the possibility that your feelings for her will ruin your friendship and make things awkward. If there is a chance that you could be anything more than friends, it will take some time. In the meantime, seeing as how she already knows how you feel, i'd suggest you don't bring it up to her because it might make her feel uncomfortable. Wish you the best.

-Jmo

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A female reader, ones1owdance United States +, writes (13 March 2008):

ones1owdance agony auntit can be a bad sign and it could be a good sign.....bad because she may not feel comfortable around you being alone with her and good because she may want her friends to see how good and fun of a guy you are. it gonna take some time. keep me updated.

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