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writes:hello everyone, i really need help. i'm 15 and there's a friend who lives on my street, i have knew him since i was about 6. (he is 13 now by the way so i'm 2 years older). we both fancy eachother. do you think it would be right for us to have sex seen as though we both want to, but don't know because of our age difference and our actual ages. he's dead sweet to me, and i know he just doesn't want the sex because we've talked about it loads. please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): I really feel you guys should wait. There is no rush. The age difference is not as much of an issue as the age. You guys are both too young to rush into something like this. If he is such a nice guy, then keep him as your friend and who knows where you will be in a few more years....when it is legal.
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reader, yidette +, writes (13 March 2008):
i think that you need to concider the age of both of you as you are both too young to be having sex. to me a relationship isn't about the age its about the feelings you have for each other but i do hope that you will think about it before you act upon it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Im 18 and my girlfriend is 23. We just had sex.. You can wait!
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reader, Jmo  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 I'm not one to judge people's decisions on whether or not to have sex based on age (even though there is a lot to be said about it) but I agree completely with eyeswideopen. If you felt the need to ask this question, you already know your answer.
-Jmo
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (13 March 2008):
 If he doesn't want sex it no longer becomes about what you should or should not do. He just doesn't want it.
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reader, natasia +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Hang on there!! Slow down!I know it might seem like sex is the thing to do - there's so much talk about it, everywhere. But you're both still really young. You've got so much time in front of you. I think you should calm down and forget about sex for a bit. I don't think your age difference is a problem - if you are very close, it doesn't matter at all. But I do think you sound pressured, as if you feel sex is what should happen now, and it sounds like he feels a bit pressured too. Don't do it - wait - enjoy being with him - forget about sex for now. Really. Trust me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): omg the actual title for the question is nothing like whats been said, it says that both want to, but the title suggests different, obviously the question title wasnt chose by the writer
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Absolutely anytime someone has to ask this question the answer is NO.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Are you crazy? Leave the boy alone. You both are too young to even be thinking about such things. Go to a movie with your parents or something. Shame on you for even thinking of forcing the issue.
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Sorry but you're both way too young to even be THINKING about having sex...wait about 5 more years...think what would you do if you got pregnant?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): You could atcually be charged for this if you were 16. How do you know what you want, do you really think the sex will be fun? And hang on, does this boy want to have sex with you or not? you have said he does, then he doesnt, in your question. If he doesnt, then its obvious the whole thing is out of your hands, and you need to forget about it. And even if he does, you still need to forget the idea, for starters you both are not old enough so its against the law, it will be awful, as your bodies have not matured yet, and he seems a bit too young for you. If you want a non-sexual relationship, then fine, go ahead. But anything over that would be going too far.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): You are both too young for sex plus you are under the legal age limit!
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