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Should I try this during masturbation?

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Question - (3 January 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *essicajay writes:

I'm only fourteen and have experimented with my fingers rubbing my clit. But I'm scared it will hurt if I put my fingers in my vagina. Any suggestions?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008):

Being a man I don't have one of those lovely jewels, but you got great advice from the other Aunts. And if you are going to engage in any prolonged clit. stimulation, a vaginal lubricant like KY-Jelly,is a must. And it will help keep your clit.from becoming sore,due to the prolonged clit.stimulation. Do be careful stroking,and if you have long fingernails they can also irritate your clit, for it is very delicate Joy-Toy. Do enjoy your sexuality.

Love and XXXX's from the Philippines.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony aunt*copies from a previous post of mine*

Alot of women don't masturbate. As i once said to my gf who'd never had an orgasm with anyman.

" If you don't know what you like how the hell am i ment to know?"

middle and index finger. make the "Come hither" or the "Beconing" motion.

lay on the bed laying down, put a pillow under the lower back, and once under your butt so it lifts it. this curves the body.

insert about an inch and its about 2 inches up. roughly at the back of the clit.

Do the motion keeping a steady pace.

Enjoy

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (3 January 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntThe beauty is, with solo masturbation - you can go at your own pace. It is fine to experiment with putting fingers into your vagina, just make sure that your hands are THOROUGHLY clean, and make sure your fingernails are tidy.

Just get yourself warmed up before you start sticking in fingers. And go for one at a time, there's no race!! Take your sweet time, and go as fast or as slow as you'd like. It's your body, it's your time... enjoy yourself!

Here's a website with some great masturbation techniques for girls: www.clitical.com

Enjoy, sweetness!

xx India

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A female reader, x-Happy-Feet-x United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2008):

x-Happy-Feet-x agony auntno it doesnt hurt but dont go fast or it may be a bit uncomfortable just slowly put one finger in im sure it will be better for you that way then wen your comfortable you will know what to do next xx hope this helps

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A male reader, Devil Crazy Singapore +, writes (3 January 2008):

Devil Crazy agony auntYou may want to try doing it slowly...try one finger initially to see if it hurts you, then probably increase the number of fingers if you are used to the sensation...however, do not insert your fingers too deep inside as you may break your hymen, which can be very painful.

Oh and make sure your fingers are properly cleaned before you do so!!

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A female reader, dummyduckling United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2008):

dummyduckling agony auntthe chance is that it will feel uncomfortable when you first put your finger(s) in your vagina as your body is not used to this level of intamicy (im assuming your a virgin) but just take it slow, put 1 in a little bit and only you will know your limit if it hurts stop and just do it up to the point of pain (if that made sence). but i doubt it will feel as good as what you have already been doing as it is strange for your body but after a few times of doing it it will feel great. i hope this helped you.

Dummyduckling -x-

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntdont put all in at once...give yourself time, try with one and see how it feels and do it that way

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

No, it wont hurt if you put your fingers into your vagina, it will feel good and you may get a orgasm which will kind of saticfy you in ways, you may start to get horny aswell and you may get a habbit of doing this, try it out you may like it! :) I hope this has helped you

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A female reader, KarenY United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2008):

KarenY agony aunthi there.....if you feel comfortable and ready to do this then, it will come naturally to do so. they only way we know if things are bad is by trying them. its ok to be scared though after all your 14 but us girls always want to experiment on things.

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