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*NothingLasts4ever-
writes:Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only Problem Was That When He Pulled Out He Didn't Feel Like He Was About To Cum Anymore and His Erection Went Down.If I Am Pregnant, Should I Talk To My Mum About Getting An Abortion Or Just Get One Behind My Mum's Back?Please Help...xXx
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reader, lovesickpup +, writes (6 January 2008):
 hiya hunny, the first thing that i and my boyfriend have got to say is tht you would have known if he had come in you is when you sat up most of it would of come out so unless he pre-commed then you are unlikely to get pregnant but on the chance that you are i think that you should tell your mom because abortions can sometimes go wrong and you will need you mom lovesickpuphope that helps
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reader, sxcarshalz  +, writes (5 January 2008):
makesure you are first go to the docters and get a pregnacy test first then talk to her about it.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (5 January 2008):
-NothingLasts4ever- is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks For All Those Answers =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): I've been in the same situation, and I think what you should do is make certain you're pregnant before telling her. If you tell her and you're not pregnant, it'll just make her paranoid about you going out with boys or whatever, and for no reason. But if you are pregnant, and you've done the test and you're positive you are, then try and get one behind her back if you can. In the long run, it'll make sure she still gives you the same freedom. Otherwise, she might try and stop you from going out with him as much, and it could cause big arguments.Hope this helps =]
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reader, x-Happy-Feet-x +, writes (3 January 2008):
 well i completely 100% understand you i have been through that i think you need to wait till your period is due if it doesnt come have a couple of tests done if you are pregnant go to your doctor and have a word with them but if you are pregnant i would reccomend you tell your mum but i dont no what state or position your in if you can trust your mum then tell her but if your not sure then maybe drop a question on her like mum what would you do if i got pregnant and i needed an abortion what would you say and just see how she reacts but dont make nothing bait because trust me she will find out mothers know best. so i would say just come clean with her but only if your pregnant dont scare her be independent if you need to talk to me about this just message me i have had a miscarriage before and i know how it feels i am your age so i can help you xx dont get upset because of the age you are try not to let others get to you xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (3 January 2008):
 I would tell your mum but only if you are pregnant (you dont want her worrying if your not)abortins are something your parents should know about and i dont think its the kind of thing you want to do alone (mums are usually more understanding then boyfriends) wait for your period if it doesnt come get a test and if you are pregnant then talk it through, but please always be safe always use a condom or go on the pill doesnt matter how hard he begs waiting is better then having a baby or an STI
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): I dont agree with abortion but it may be the right thing because of your age and it may afect your schooling and your boyfriend may get in trouble as your legally not a loud to have sex. i think its up to you this one and in future use contreception.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (3 January 2008):
-NothingLasts4ever- is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks For The Answers =]
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reader, mama2three  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 You should *really* talk to your mom...regardless if you are pregnant or not. Let her know that you had a 'scare' (if you are not pregnant) so that maybe she'll help you, or direct you, as far as what to do about getting on the pill or something.
I don't believe in abortion, so I can't advise you on that.
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