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writes:How can I crave Sex less?? I haven't had Sex in nearly 8 months and I feel like everyone except me (former girlfriend included) is having it. I'm single, and not enjoying it. Has anybody else felt this way? What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (10 January 2008):
My advise is to move your attention away from your sexual thoughts, fantasies, desires, etc, and move your focus on to being happy in your life and enjoying the simple things in life, and the other important things life is offering you right now. There are two reasons for this.
1. Being happy with what you have, and with your life in the present is a good philosophy on life, and will make you happier day to day.
2. It will actually increase the chance of you being ready to meet someone, and eventually start having sex again.
In other words, chill out, don't worry, be happy, and live your life. When you are doing that, you will make space in your life for someone to come along, and will be able to make the right effort with someone without it being forced or desparate.
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reader, benny boy +, writes (4 January 2008):
The more you think about it, the less chance you will meet someone. You need to alter your frame of mind and chill out, keep going out with friends, and keep your eyes out. Also, ask friends and family members if they know of any single girls that are in your boat that you could get fixed up with. If you keep all these options open with a new mind set, you will meet someone before you know it!
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