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writes:Im not sure if there is an actual answer to this, but do both sexes get the same amount of pleasure during sex? for example if they both reach their 'peak' orgasm.in other words, wat sex overall recieves more pleasure?
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (18 April 2009):
 Some things that fascinate me and make me think that women enjoy it more end make feel somewhat envious- "I dont know how the sex was, I am not conscious when I have sex"- All the weird stuff, squirting, overlubrcation- All the convulsions, fast breathing... I never seem to have these- And the moaning. Why do they moan? I always think that they do because they feel such uncontainable pleasure that they have to... Maybe thats a childish perception though.And like one guy said once, put your finger in your ear and move it around. What feels better, the finger or the ear?But in the end who knows, and does it really matter? Better not think too much about these and enjoy what you have. If it gives her out of the world pleasure, better for her! If there is anything I can do to help her get there, I am happy to oblige.
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reader, Crisy +, writes (4 January 2008):
 I think boys and girls both get the same amount of pleasure however lads can get an orgam in more ways than girls e.g girls cant get a real orgasm through intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): Believe it or not, but women actually have more pleasure receptors (sensitive nerves) in their zone than men. Researchers estimate at least 8,000 nerves in the clitoris, and some 15,000 overall. So the opportunity for intense sexual satisfaction for a woman is certainly available.
As previously stated, women are also capable of multiple orgasms and climaxes that last longer.
Unfortunately, it is estimated that only one in four men really know how to please a woman to greatest potential. Most men think that about all they need to do is get it up, stick it in and pump awhile. Well, that's about all the man needs to do for himself, but it's far short of what would really please a lady.
In the western world, this leaves an estimated two-thirds of females less satisfied than they could be, according to researchers, possibly without any true orgasm at all - much more so in most other cultures.
Yet the solution is really simple. Everyone has heard of foreplay, but not everyone really knows much about it. A woman is a very complicated sexual being and needs patient, tender loving care to reach her true potential.
I can't stress it enough, guys, "Take your time with her if you want to really be a ladies man."
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Who knows? I can't experience a man's orgasm, and a man can't experience mine. I've always thought that guys must have because they get this big squirting finish at the end - I don't know, it looks pretty explosive to me.
Then again, women can keep going, going, orgasming, orgasming... men pretty much get the one shot.
Enjoy sweetness. As long as both partners are having a lot of fun, being safe and responsible... that's all that matters, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): As stated, women can orgasm repeatedly. My girlfriend is a good example, where she will often have 6 intense orgasms in a row. And as stated, men only really have one squirt at the end. I think woman probably get the most pleasure, but i'm a guy and i'm not complaining :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): This is impossible to answer, as there is no way for one partner to actually feel what the other feels. You might be able to get an idea by how heavy both partners breathe during orgasm or how much their bodies shake or something like that, but there is no way to really know for sure. The important thing is if both partners enjoy their sex together and their orgasms. If they both really enjoy it, then it doesn't matter who has the best orgasm. Some women, however, do have the advantage of being able to have multiple orgasms during one session. My wife usually has 2 to 4, while a girlfriend of mine many years ago could have only 1, but her 1 was more intense. Whose was better? Noone can ever know.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 January 2008):
 No gender receives more pleasure than the other but it's the females who get stuck with the resultant pregnancy if they don't use some form of birth control. Responsibility is the key word to remember.
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