A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 15 and in love with my 17 year old girlfriend we have been dating for 8 months. She has been acting really suspicious never wanted to talk to me on the phone, yelling at me for worrying about her, she never calls me anymore,and when people tell me she is cheating on me i try to tlk to her about it and she just gets really angry and she trys to avoid the subject i am so worried because when i do see her she always backs up when i go to hug her and when i go to kiss her she turns her head she doesnt want to hold hands i dont know if she is cheating on me can u help? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, NewlyHappySingle +, writes (4 January 2008):
Ok...for a 17yr girl to be in a relationship with a 15yr boy is a little odd. Therefore it wouldn't be surprising at all if she was interested or having relations with someone else. You shouldn't worry about her at all, she is upset because she most likely wishes wasn't that important to you. Let that girl go, and you should relax and worry about nothing but yourself and school. :)
A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 It is obvious , she does not like you as much as before. There could be some problems and you need to find out what you have done or said anything to hurt her.
Whether she is cheating or not ,you have to give her the benefits of doubts until you have the proof or see with your own eyes. Better to check it out than to listen to rumours or just hearsays because they could be wrong or the untruth. Suspicion is not conducive for any relationships.Either you banish those suspicions or they will destroy your relationship.
What if you know she is cheating on you ? Will your love be strong or will you dump her? That is for you to decide.
...............................
A
female
reader, mary-lee  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 hey, sorry to break the news to you, but this girl is either cheating on you or doesn't love you anymore or both. i suggest that you sit down with her and have a serious talk, dont accuse her of anything or she wont talk to you. if this doesn't work, i suggest you break up with her and see what her reaction is. if she's all for it, the relationship wouldn't have worked any way, and if she protests maybe she does love you, and you can use this oppitunity to talk to her. good luck
...............................
A
female
reader, Sazza13  +, writes (4 January 2008):
ask her,if she says no trust her, and if she yells at u leave it and move on, believe me its no use being paranoid i was like that with my ex, and she never cheated on me for 1 yr and 4 months, x
...............................
A
female
reader, lawstudentemma +, writes (4 January 2008):
I think it's time to walk. Sounds like either she is ready for a change or she is guilty about something. I suggest you ask her out straight and the answer is all in the body language. Defensive body language usually says it all.
...............................
|
