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writes: There Is A Boy In My Life At The Moment We Arent Going Out As Such But Are Really Close And He Has Asked Me To Staer Going Out With Him I Dont Know What To Do because He Promised Me He Wouldnt Smoke Skunk And Have Joints Or Bongs No More, Then A Couple Of Weeks Ago He Came To Me And Told Me He Was StonedSo I Dont Know If I Can Trust Him Anymore I Dont Want To Be Involved With Anyone On Drugs But I Love Him Too Much To Let Him Go What Should I Do ?
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reader, maggie1987  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 a lot of people smoke joints and like to get stoned, it is also an addiction and its very hard to stop smoking it as you get bored without having a joint, if he really wants to stop smoking it then he wont be able to just have no more joints or bongs at all, he'll have to do it gradually as in cut down every week until hes only smoking about 2 joints a day. it will take a few month but some people just cant give it up entirely
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (3 January 2008):
 You gotta remember, drugs to people who take them are say, a hobbie (they arnt but lets use it as an example) lets say you enjoyed horse riding, but he didnt like horses, and asked you to give it up, what would you say? (Also youve got to think about how oftern he does it, if its everyday and you really dont like drugs then you know the answer, but if its an every now and then there really is no harm in it, somebody on cannabis compared to alcohol is GENERALLY, not always, but generally more relaxed and nicer to be around, thats my opionion)
cannabis is a class C drug, meaning its illegal but unless there is an intent to sell or previous drug violations the most likely thing that would happen would be his stash conviscated with a warning or maybe a fine.
Now, people do drugs for different reasons, to relax and have fun, to help them cope with problems, etc etc.
Personally i do smoke cannabis, if i had a girlfriend who didnt want me to smoke it i would meet her half way and not smoke it before or during spending time with her, and if she wasnt satisfied with that then i would rethink the relationship, because if a couple cant comprimise then its going to be difficult.
Really its up to you how you feel about drugs, if your unsure about how people act on the drug or anything like that, then theres alot of good information sites that can help you decide weather you could go through with having a boyfriend that does it.
Best one ive found is www.talktofrank.com, you can even email them with this very question and they might be able to give you some more information because drugs is thier speciality.
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