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writes:hi i wonder if anyone can help me. i have know my brothers best friend for over 10years now he is nearly 18 and i am almost 16. i have always had this feeling that there was something between us as he would always make time 2 come and c me n talk 2 me, and always stick up 4 me if my brother and i had an argument. now i want more than just friendship. there have also been weird moments where his twin brother and friends make small comments to me about him which suggests that he likes me and this makes me think that he may feel the same way. How do you think me brother will react and do u think by what i told you that he may feel the same way?? any help would be great ... thanks h xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): Hi, thankyou for all your answeres, they were all a great help!I will keep you posted on what happens. Thankyou so much, best wishes for the new yearlove hannah xxxx
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (4 January 2008):
As a guy i'd really have reservations about my young sis dating one of my friends.If it were my older sis,i would have less reservations.There are two options here.
1.You forget about dating him and look elsewhere
2.You hook up without your brother knowing and tell him abit later on.At that point,he can't break you up.
One other thing you should do is ask him in a joking way what he thinks of you dating his friend and hear what he has to say.
Good luck.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (4 January 2008):
 Well being a brother i think he will be kinda pi**ed. Your his little sister, in his eyes proberly still a little baby. While this is his mate who he knows in a different way to you, like how he really thinks. I think mixing these two groups would not make him too happy im afraid.
But this is my opinion, if you do wanna go ahead talk to your brother first as this is his friend.
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reader, alwaysndforever  +, writes (4 January 2008):
he totally feels the same way. this may sound crazy but when he comes into ur room to say hi or something tell him to come here for a second and show him something on the computer or in a magazine. make sure none of his friends or your brother is around and then look him in the eyes if he doesnt turn away in a second or two then kiss him start making out. you will 100 percent be able to tell by his kiss what he wants. dont be affeneded if a reltationship doesnt start right away it will most likely be a lot for him to handle and think about , if you dont care hes ur brothers friend then you have to make him love you so much that he doesnt either. im sure that u guys will secretly chill at first and then he will admit it. ur brother and him will fight a little and then it will pass over. i sugguest not being with ur brother and ur potential bf at the same time if u nd this guy start dating because then a lot of fights can start. which could make you and your brother really distant and thats never good. it can also make your brother and his friend distant and if uve known him for 10 years fucking that up could be bad..please respond if you have anyyyyy questions or jsut want to talk =]
Xo-always&&forever
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reader, Hid3nTearDropz  +, writes (4 January 2008):
wow how funny i came to this site and posted one just like this. i am in love with my brothers friend but we are 18 and 27 and ive known him for more than 10 years. i honestly think you should just not go right ahead n say you like his friend but bring it out in a convo with him. about how great of a guy he is and then be like i have feelings for him and i am coming to you first..
keep me posted.......
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