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In love with my 'friend with benefits'!

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Question - (3 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *wik247 writes:

I think i'm in love with my friend w/ benefits.... What should i do? He is also my boss!!

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A female reader, kwik247 United States +, writes (7 January 2008):

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That is VERY TRUE... But i got a call from him this weekend, and he says that he really likes me, and that even though he knows that this is a "sex only "relationship, he cant sleep if i'm not sleeping next to him....So obviously he does have feelings, i just dont know if i should step over my boundries or not!

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A male reader, helpme001 United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

get his opinion, ask him how he feels about you if he wants doesnt want a relationship then you should stop sleepin with him. its always gonna be that one person will fall in love in a friends with benefits as you are sharin the most trustin contact a person can have with someone... as for work just be clear that work is work and thats how it stays no matter what you decide

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A female reader, NewlyHappySingle United States +, writes (4 January 2008):

Been there, done that! Only he wasn't my boss. Honestly, you should end the whole thing. Because you have become emotional and developed feelings for him thats going to end up hurting you in the end. If he wants something more, he would let you know. But right now he doesn't want anything else but your body. The act of sex with him seems passionate because you are emotional, nothing more. But you really should stop the whole thing asap, then is when his true feelings come out.

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