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writes:Hi , got a love letter from a guy already in a relationship with someone else but has been a long - term admirer saying that " he thinks we are on the same wavelength " , and finished the letter with" don't forget the happy ending " . I like him a lot , but do have a conscience . what should I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (4 January 2008):
Be brave and make the right decision.Don't do something that'll hurt others because others may do the same thing to you.Tell him you can't get involved with him because he's seeing sum1 and don't give him hope that if he dumps her you'll have your arms wide open waiting for him.Just tell him maybe in the future.Don't ever be the reason for a couple breaking up.If you really think things between you can work then you can wait for him to finally break up with his girl but never let him know you are waiting for him and besides they may never break up at all.
Take care.
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reader, Willow_os  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 He is not being honest with his current girlfriend nor with you. Perhaps you have been sending him the wrong signals and he may want a short term girlfriend for other reasons [sex].
If he is a long term admirer, he should know better and leave you alone while he still has a commitment with someone else. How would you feel if he was your boyfriend and was sending another girl love letters? You would be deceived right?
Listen to your conscience and stay away from him, think hard and & don't let your instincts reign over your conscience. You deserve very much more than being the other in his life.
Take care & be good.
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reader, kenny +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Ultimately he is being decietful to his current girlfriend by forwarding you love notes. Personally i would forget about him, and my reason for this is that if he was with you how would you know he wasen't sending letters to girls behind you back. If he can do this to his current love then the likellhood is he will do it to someone else.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): Tell him that you cannot get involved as he is in a relationship; if he really wants to be with you, he will finish it.
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