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writes:help i was kinda seeing this guy from college and we split up his decision. but i cant get over him i really liked him,what can i do to get over him?? he was my first relationship if you can call him that,and i dont find it easy to meet guys.all my mates have guys after them but never me thats why i think i cant get over him that easy
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reader, hello:) +, writes (3 January 2008):
All i can say is in a few months maybe less you'll be wondering what you saw in him!
Im in college too and most of my friends have partners, but i think at my age you should experiment and have fun!
Things will get better:)
Best of luck! x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): Hi,
I was in a similar situation. It was my first girlfriend, i met her in high school, we were together for a while and she finally broke it off with me. Lets just say it is not easy getting over someone you really like!, but you will, it just takes time. I think the most important thing is that you keep your distance from him, it is near impossible to become friends straight away. Also spend a lot of time with your friends, as friends always give you the support you need. Also make a point not to mope around, keep busy, go out have fun and meet new people. I found doing the above helped a lot. It did take me 6+ months though.
Lastly, the worst thing one can do is have a fear of ending up alone. Don't worry that you don't have guys chasing you, you will meet someone. Just as this guy saw something in you, other guys will too. I also had the same fear, but to my surprise i am now going out with my best friends sister, and things have never been so good. You just never know what will happen... All the best!
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reader, tiebreaker +, writes (3 January 2008):
it always hurts the first break up being the worst, it seems you lack a bt of confidence in yourself, you will get over it it will take its own time, dont feel bad about the break up you will look back at it in a few weeks time, and wonder why you felt that way. keep yourself busy and give yourself lots of treats, do something for you after all you are worth it and remember, life has a funny way of working things out for the best. dont worry about your friends having boyfriends( i bet they have afew problems themselves ) just remain happy and content and who knows what the new year may bring you! All the best for the future.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (3 January 2008):
 ahh first.. uh.. sudo love? i guess?you never forget your first. be it first kiss, first love, first sexual experience which is usually awkward and more of a fumbbling sham more than anything.believe you me.. its just as difficult for guys to meet women as well. its a bizarre thing, but theres a group of us who seem to always been the single one.give it time, you're still young. just focus on what you want form life and do what you enjoy doing. it will take time but you'll get over him in time. thats just the way it is
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (3 January 2008):
 From Past Experience... You Just Have To Get On With Life. It Seems Really Mean But There's Nothing Else To Do. Just Go Out, Chat To Other Guys && Try To Forget About Him. I Know It's Earsier Said Than Done But That's What You Have To Do.
If He Stills Likes You && You Think You Can Give It Another Shot, Go For It. But If Not Then Just Try && Forget About Him... Don't Let Him Stop You From Having Fun.
xx
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