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36-40,
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writes:I am a student in college and date this guy who lives 9 hours away from me. At school we are INSEPARABLE, but whenever we have a break he rarely calls, rushes me off the phone, and is not supportive emotionally. Once we get to school we are fine. This really upsets me and makes me question what will happen over the summer. What's the point if we can't even spend a week away from each other and still be there for one another??? Should I break up with him?
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Hi, I can see that what is stopping you from breaking up with him at the moment is the fact that you are good together when he does come home. However, you have to think of the reasons why he is being distant and unsupportive. I would reccomend talking to him about how you feel as it could be he doesn't realise he's doing it and doesn't know how to tell you he's missing you. If this doesn't help, then the only possible solution I could think about would be to end the relationship. If its causing you distress and heartbreak, surely this outweighs the good times together? You've got to remember that you have done nothing wrong for this behaviour to carry on and you do deserve better. Good Luck!
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