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30-35,
anonymous
writes:please help. i used to be really horny all the time and used to be able to feel really intense when being fingered or touched or something. im only 18 and since breaking up with my ex and getin with someone else iv nt been able to get horny at all. my new boyfriend tries everything and i cant get turned on. if i do it lasts about 2 minutes or as soon as i think of sex i just turn off. i feel like theres sumthing wrong with me because of this. but wen my ex touches me like strokes my arm or sumthin i stil feel something. bt wen my new boyfriends tries thngs it doesnt. i love my new boyfriend very much. whats wrong with me? why can't i get turned on? what can i do? i dont even get turnd on doing anything to myself, bt thats never worked in the past anyway.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 This sounds like you are not mentally prepared for another relationship, at least on the level you want it at.
Sex and anything related to it is on a mostly mental level so if you are under a lot of stress or have a lot on your mind it can be difficult to get going. I am sure if you just give it some time and relax it will come naturally. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): You still have unfinished business in your head from your ex, only time will sort that out, stop touching or being touched by him, you are only continuing the feeling of excitement because he made you horny before. He is not the only man who will ever make you excited, but it seems that way at the minute. You need to be able to make yourself orgasm to get this out of your head its very important to be able to do this, then you will get over it and your new bf will be able to take over that space where your ex is now
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