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writes:how can i find a woman in my area fisrt to like me and then to get intimate. i respect all woman and need one. i have been alone for so long. the woman should be truthful and loyal. no lies and truly needs a relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): I'm not a master about this part, but used to attract a lot of ladies in the old days. I was a lot younger and it was a different era. Then I was happily married for 20 years, but lost her and spent a good deal of lonely time in my late 50s for awhile.
Then I started working harder at meeting ladies, and am doing very well now.
I'm not out for a marriage relationship, as you seem to be, but still, getting a lady's attention when you're past 50-years-old is equally challenging.
You didn't say where you live. In the boondocks or a big city, but certainly in the city there are many opportunities.
First of all, it's all in your eyes. When you see a woman, even just passing by in the store or on a parking lot, what do you do? Look them straight in the eye and hold it there, with just a slight smile or maybe a slight nod to go along with the look. Be smiling with your eyes, not a stare or glare at them. Look nice and friendly and always presentable. Most men may look, but then promptly look away. Don't do that.
Most of the ladies will probably look away, and then you might as well. They are perhaps attached in some way, or maybe just not interested.
But with practice, you might be surprised how many even smile at you first.
Practice this everywhere you go - in stores, malls, everywhere. Look directly at all of them, young or old or whatever, and hold the attention if they do. If nothing else, it helps you learn to communicate with your eyes.
Whenever you have a chance to speak with any woman, look them straight in the eyes at length - cashiers, women working in stores, wherever. Put a little mischief in your eyes and give the ladies little smiles - big ones if you look best when smiling.
Also, go everywhere the ladies are. As "eyeswideopen" advised, get out there and be visible. Take a dance class, cooking class, art or even a sewing class - where ever women attend, especially in greater numbers than men.
And think of it as advertising. If people don't know you have something to offer, they won't be taking you up on it. Get on a couple of dating sites on the Internet. Be clever and funny with what you say. Don't say you are lonely.
Maybe that's a start. A very good teacher online is David D'Angelo - may have misspelled the last name, but he advises online and offers e-books called "Double Your Dating." Newsletter is free. He's pretty good at it. Best of luck, old boy!
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (3 January 2008):
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): Hi there! Erm i'd suggest that you arrange a reunion with some friends you've kept in contact with, and organise a night out with those you haven't seen in years. Like from school or workplace? You're bound to find some single ladies among them, get chatting, use your charm... and you may find that special someone. If ur interested, then try friends reunited! They do a great service. Gud luck x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Do some volunteer work at your local hospital, join a club, get involved with your community, be out there and visible. You'll meet people and sooner or later find someone. Good luck.
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