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writes: Hey every1.I guess today i also need some advice.I've been dating this girl i regretfully love with all my heart.Everything was rosy in the beginning even when i moved to another town due to work.However,the past two months things changed.She called less,her 4n was off more often and she sounded distant.I always suspected but never acted that she's seeing someone else until my cousin told me.She later admitted that she's seeing sum1 and she no longer loved me.Over xmas period,we got back together after i was so emotional.She even admitted to having sex with him(co-worker) only 1ce.She promised to leave him.Just after new year's day,she told me to give her space and time for her to learn to love me.I'm really scared of losing her and can't let go.How do i make this easier on myself?We still live apart and the guy she cheated on me with lives near her place.Can i trust she won't cheat on me again?Is there hope of us getting back together after being friends,as she wants?
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (3 January 2008):
i mean.. seriously. where is your courage?" my gf who apparently loved me screwed someone else"is she going to cheat again... the answer you're looking for is "YES" and she'll probably cheat on the guy she's cheating on you with right now.come on man. i know its difficult but be braver. stop being blinded by this Silver-screened Hollywood ideal you call "love" and realise that she Betrayed you.
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