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writes:I've just started seeing this girl. She is a great girl, all my friends and family say she's a good catch. Yet for some reason I'm questioning the relationship. It's only been a few weeks but I'm having doubts about being in a relationship. I don't think it helps that I have no relationship and sexual experience (although before we started dating we nearly had sex but I ruined it by not being able to get an erection as I was tired and we both had a few drinks) despite being 21. Is it just not meant to be? Is it just nerves at the beginning of a relationship? Or is it that I might have commitment issues?
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reader, keely-h +, writes (4 January 2008):
 see how it goes, she sounds like a nice girl, at least try and i dont thnik you have commitment issues, i think you are just questioning the relationship which many people do.
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reader, kenny +, writes (3 January 2008):
 I don't think that you have got commitment issues to be honest. Its really early days with regards to this relationship, at that getting to know you stage. The time before you were dating when you nearly had sex it was probably a combination of being really nervous, combined with having a drink too. If you like this girl then keep dating, see how things pan out, over time you will both feel more at ease in each others company, and those nerves will diminish.
Good luck
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reader, Miss Tee +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Honey, relax, chill and calm down. It is very early days and you are very young to be having commitment issues. If you really have doubts then maybe she isn't the girl for you. Just pull back, enjoy her company and see how it goes. If she isn't the right one you will soon know. X
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