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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have had an extreme attraction for this guy since 4th grade and I'm pretty sure he has been aware of this. We have been friends but there has always been this awkward thing between us when we are around each other. I catch him staring at me and sometimes I'm brave enough to stare back but I try not to seem to obvious. When I least expect it... I get a chance to be with this guy and we had sex but we had to stop in the middle of it and by the time we got back to it we were both not in the mood because we were up at 8 a.m. still. We spent most of the night messing around hardcore because I told him we couldn't have sex and when it came down to it...it was not what we expected and we both new it could be better so we starting talking about doing it another time. I just want to know if he really likes me or he just wants to get laid???
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): You don't say why you had to stop in the middle of having sex, but that aside, I'd say he likes you and also wants to get laid - and I'd also say he hopes you feel the same way!
I can't understand why you had sex with him and then later told him he couldn't have sex. Can you explain in more detail?
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reader, Devil Crazy  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Well it is difficult to know what a guy's intention are sometimes, but these are the questions that you may want to ask yourself to ascertain that he does love you:1). Is sex the main activity when we are together?2). Does he have a history of promiscuity and STDs?3). Did his attitude change after he had sex with you?4). Does he try to force sex with you?5). Does he react badly when you rejected sexual advancements from him?6). Does he harbour any intent to improve the prospect of the relationship with you (e.g. saving for the future for marriage)?7). Does he shower you with love, care and concern on a constant basis?If your answers to Q1 ~ Q5 are all 'no' and 'yes' to Q6 and Q7, I'll say you have landed yourself a good catch. If not, be sure to openly and candidly discuss with him, in order to judge whether he truly loves you.Devil Crazy
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