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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and a guy started talking about 2 weeks ago, and are officially dating as of Jan. 1. I am 19 and he is 22. At first he was afraid of getting close to me because he has been hurt in the past, and I was also afriad of getting hurt. He assured me that if I just gave him a chance he wouldn't hurt me, and he would do whatever it takes to make me happy. He texted me pretty frequently, we went out on dates..he would never let me pay, and I couldn't have been happier.We ended up having sex one night, and the next day he wanted to make sure I was ok with what had happened and said we wouldn't have to do it again. I'm okay with it happening again but I'm afraid of that being the only reason he wants to be with me. He told me he wasn't with me for just that reason, but that he really cares about me...and still promises that he will never hurt me. He doesn't text me as much as he did, but we still text a couple of times during the day. Sometimes he can be short answered...but he's usually at work when he texts me. Is he still interested? Could he only want me for sex? Or am I just overanalyzing?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 If he is still in contact with you , it means he is still interested in you . Sometimes , you need to give him some space and you should not read too much into those texts. He could be busy or he cannot keep up with those texts from you. If he wants sex again with you , then it is only for sex.
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