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*heaz8
writes:Im in love with my cousin who is three years older than me. I had heard that he loves me too. So when recently he came to our home he acted exceptionally friendly with me only. He touched my hand, kissed it too. Even i started loving him since that day. We used to sit up chatting for hours and hours, even at night.I normally dont get sparks over my body when a guy touches me, but it was not the same in his case. I felt tingles run over my spine when he touched me. Then on the day he had to go back to his hostel, he told me that he didnt want to go and stuff like that. We hugged each other, cried and stuff. Well, my main question is should i tell him how i feel about him or not? I really love him and i cant live without him, but i am afraid of telling him the truth too as i fear if he says no. So what should i do?Please help!P.S. He is single and i am too.
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reader, Help 4 You =]  +, writes (5 January 2008):
Okay well first of all awwwwww that actually is really sweet how you feel about him; and although I know you probably think your really in love with him; in my opinion you absolutely can not act upon these feelings it is totally immoral and incestry is not something highly spoken off. I Know what its like to feel the tingly sensation and the passionate feelings that your feeling but not towards your cousin ! try and move these feelings onto someone else and take your mind off of him
i hope i helped and good luck
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reader, Omerta +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Actually it is wrong to act on these feelings, I agree with the last comment & think you should just try and move on even if it is difficult. My boyfriend said he would like to have sex with his cousin even though he knows it's wrong...I found that shocking and felt very uncomfortable. Just go out there and fins someone else who's single and pref not directly related to you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): tell him...and if he says no and stuff like that then lie to him and tell him u were jokin, and that u just want to no what he would say! but if he says he loves u or whatevr then i geuss yall can be 2-gether
hope i helped (at least a lil')
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (3 January 2008):
 Erm, well the way ur acting around him will probably make it obvious to him that you have strong feelings for him. It's weird how these things can happen within a family! I had a crush on my older cousin once, lasted a couple of years! But then i realised how innappropriate it would be to act on them feelings so i left it... and in time the crush faded away! I'd advise you to do the same, can you imagine how your family would take the news that you were seeing each other? I don't think they'd be too pleased, do you? Think carefully about this okay x
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