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I love him,but he says he doesn't love me .......yet?

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Question - (16 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I was with my ex for a very long time,we had a son together and lived together for 15 years.we split 18 months ago,i had a relationship with a guy that didnt workout and he did with a women that didnt workout as well,we have both now decided to give it another go,but he is staying where he lives and i'm staying in my house.

Things is i love him,but he says he doesnt love me yet,but love will grow.he is fond of me and likes spending time with me,we get on well.

he said he wont mess me about and i have nothing to worry about.

but what if love doesnt come back for him,i'll be attached to him.i keep thinking shouldnt love be there in the first place after being together for so long in the past.

am i worrying for no reason.let me just say he isnt a man that shows his feelings easierly anyway.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntHe may love you but may be waitin a while to tell you has he mite not want to rush in to anything just yet as it mite end like last time. You dont need to worry he will say it soon and i'm sure he loves you anyway.

Good luck.

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A male reader, binhquangdao United States +, writes (16 April 2008):

binhquangdao agony aunthe loves you but not in love with you give him time it will come to him.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntHi,

Yes babe! you are worrying for nothing. If he didnt love you he wouldnt be giving it another go would he? especially as you have a son together.

Just give it a little time, and dont bug him about saying it. Dont you say it to often either, and he will tell you he loves you, in his own time.

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